Wedding invitations bring the same question every time: what do I wear? The answer depends on three things: the dress code, the venue and the time of year. Here is a simple way to get it right, from garden ceremonies in spring to beach weddings in the height of summer.
Start with the dress code
If the invitation mentions a dress code, follow it. If it does not, the venue and the time of the ceremony usually tell you what the couple has in mind.
- Casual or daytime: a midi or maxi dress in a soft print, flat sandals or wedges, and simple jewellery.
- Cocktail: a knee to midi length dress with a little structure, a block heel and a small bag.
- Formal or black tie: a floor-length dress, elegant heels and a wrap for later in the evening.
Dress for the season and the venue
Many Australian weddings are held outdoors, so the weather matters as much as the dress code.
- Spring and summer: choose breathable dresses with movement, lighter prints and a light layer for shade. Florals are a natural fit for garden and vineyard weddings.
- Beach weddings: a flowing maxi dress with flat sandals or wedges. Leave the stilettos at home, they sink into the sand.
- Autumn and winter: long sleeves, richer tones and a jacket or wrap for the reception.
Shoes you can stand in all day
Most weddings mean hours on your feet: the ceremony, photos, drinks and dancing. Wedges and block heels are far more stable on grass and gravel than thin heels, and a pair of comfortable flats in your bag can save the night.
What to avoid
- White, ivory and cream, unless the couple asks for it.
- New shoes you have not worn for a few hours at home first.
- Very short hemlines at religious ceremonies.
Plan your delivery
If you are ordering online, give yourself enough time. At Eleanor Melbourne, orders are processed in 1 to 2 business days and usually arrive 5 to 7 business days after dispatch, with free tracked shipping anywhere in Australia.
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